I just did a 40% water change with some tap water i left in containers for a day to get to room temp and within 2mins a male kept forcing a female in her cave and he has pushd and shoved for the last 30mins its been great to see :woohoo:, im scared now of disturbing them should i just leave the tank alone for a few days of continue to feed etc?? i dont want to lift the lid to feed and disturb them really.